Manifesto..

Many people have disbelief in best friend terminology, for people must COME and GO. Is that redundant? For the first time, I really do concur with the reason. But I've been constantly scrutinizing it. Why do people have a thought like that? That's too naïve, isn't it? Eventually, after criticizing it I got the point that actually for me, we can not have disbelief in a best-friendship because people come and go, but every people change. Best friend should be laid upon things much more solid than a mere close friendship. And they questioned me. Why does it happen? Why they have to change? It's normal to change ourselves, but why they have to break the rules? Break the friendship? Why it couldn't last? Okay, well when the ground of the best-friendship is fluid, people change easily and it's harder to hold the long lasting closeness, yes?! And the dynamic life of an individual's perspective over time, is one thing holds the social complexity..!!

So... Kita gak usah heran klo di suatu kelompok ada betrayer. Saya juga gak bisa memastikan itu, yah kembali lagi aja kita ama Einstein. "Tidak ada sesuatu yang pasti di dunia ini, selain ketidakpastian itu." Yah kurang lebih kayak gitu. Permasalahan yang berakhir permusuhan dan atau pula berakhir dengan perdamaian di sebuah pertemanan adalah hal yang biasa. Tapi kita semua tau, prosesnya bener-bener kompleks. Tapi kita tidak tau, apa disetiap komunitas "pasti" ada betrayer nya ato gak karena yah gak ada yang pasti. Well I ain't pertain anybody about this case.. It's just a manifesto. Pengumuman secara terang-terangan tentang sesuatu yang emang sudah terjadi dan sangat visible. However we have to still have a logical sequence of thoughts, biar gak ada yang merasa "ditembak". Biar semuanya keep positive :D ..

Saya bukan seorang aktivis ilmu-ilmu kompleksitas sosial. Hanya ingin mencoba melihat kekompleksitas nya bagian yang sangat kecil dari kehidupan. Salah satu nya ialah best-friendship terminology ini. Saya berharap kita semua bisa menjadi orang baik dan bermanfaat #eaaa :D. Have a good time people :)
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